I can be a little stingy with opening up. I don't think that's a big secret.

Kel can be the same way.

That's why we decided to start a joint blog. What's it called? Open to Being Closed Off, natch.

In addition to the blog, a Google group of the same name has been started at groups.google.com/group/opentobeingclosed. We think you should join. There really aren't enough groups for closed off people, y'know?